buckle up, we’re driving through wedding-related roles in same sex relationships! 💘 • who proposes to who? who walks down the aisle first? who holds the flowers? who takes whose last name? both of us remember having these sorts of questions when we first came out, before we began thinking about the world differently than we grew up knowing how to. now, going through this wedding process, becca and i have found ourselves challenging more things we were taught by society that we didn’t realize we would have to even think about! 🤔 we’re making our own rules and traditions, so our answers are: 💍 becca proposed first, i proposed a few weeks later 🤵🏻‍♀️ becca is walking down the aisle first, but only because she wants to 💐 i’m carrying the bouquet, but becca will also have flowers ✍🏼 becca is assuming my last name —your answers may look (or have looked) totally different, and that’s okay! part of the beauty of being in an lgbtq+ relationship is challenging heteronormative mindsets and the freedom to create your own traditions. ⚡️ has anyone else had questions like this? or still have these sorts of questions? ✨ 📸: annaaelizabeth 👗: shoprevelry • • • • • • • #romanticcouples #equallove #dancingwithher #brideandbride #twobrides #2023wedding #2023bride #engayged #equallywed #twobridesarebetterthanone #lgbtwedding #mrsandmrs #lesbianwedding #soontobemrs #wildelopements #wildsssouls #sheswithher #loveandwildhearts